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Mikey it has been one year...or one long long day as a good friend put it. One thing I can tell you is that we only miss you more and more everyday. I know it would hurt you so much to see our pain, but I am confident you would be so proud of what your family and friends have accomplished despite their grief.

After taking a semester off, Kailey returned to school in New Orleans to play for the Loyola volleyball team and do very well in school. I am still working for GE, but I'm working from home and doing exactly what I want with my free time...like you always wanted me to. Mom has been so incredibly strong for all of us and has even saved two adorable puppies that bring us lots of laughter. Dad trained for and finished the Copper Triangle ride you always used to do. Right now he is in Alaska...he knew you would want him to go on a adventure.

I know all your friends are doing amazing things and keeping your spirit alive.

If any of you would like to share with us how Mike has touched your life or what you are up to, please post on the blog or send us an email at mikesfamily13@gmail.com.

The one thing we ask you to do is please remember Michael, the unique relationship you had with him and what he brought to your life. Even if you never had the opportunity to meet him, please keep him in your heart and help us keep his spirit alive.

Lots of Love,

Tuthill Family

Photos of Mikey.

Mike, KK and K - Younger Years

Love you Mom

Mom,

Thank you so much for being the most compassionate, inspiring and amazing Mom ever. I mean really! Who can say their Mom does this....

OR can dance with a smile like this!!

Or can teach their children to Live, Laugh & Love like this...

Love you Mom.

Survived another one of Mike's favorite days. Some of my favorites are when he filled a 1,000 dixie cups with water and blocked the girls from getting to their dorm bathroom when they woke up the next morning. Or when he put a dorm table and chairs in the middle of a frozen pond and made it look like someone had been out there enjoying a cup of coffee and the morning paper. I heard the students were quite perplexed on their way to class the next morning and the RAs not excited about retrieving the missing furniture. Another favorite, one of his friends shared with me, is when he duck taped two of his girl friends inside their dorm room. I sure do miss getting proud pix messages of the outcomes of his different pranks. I know those of you that knew Mike might also have a favorite Mike joke ...please share if you do.

Blog for Mike - www.miketuthill.blogspot.com

Mike: Forver In Our Hearts

Wanted to share this really nice rock memorial that our cousins Katie Warren and Bess Milligan created for Mike.


They went back two weeks later and the rocks had not been touched by anyone.

Thanks & Love you both this meant a lot to us.

Mikey's Birthday

Today (January 27th) is Michael’s birthday. Every day without Michael is a struggle and today for us, and I am sure for many others, will be one of the hardest. As a family we would like to thank all of the wonderful friends and family that have been there for us and continue to lend their support and compassion.

We lost Mike to one of those strange Sudden Cardiac Arrests that seem to affect so many healthy young men. Sudden Cardiac Death is not a "heart attack" or myocardial infarction caused by clogged arteries. It's an electrical problem in which the cardiac conduction system that generates the impulses regulating the heart suddenly puts out rapid or chaotic electrical impulses, or both. The heart ceases its rhythmic contractions, and the brain is starved of oxygen. Michael had an underlying and undiagnosed abnormality with his heart, which acted as a trigger to his Sudden Cardiac Death.

As we mentioned above, the loss has devastated all of us, and we find it unbelievably hard to talk about Mike. Please understand that at this time none of us are able to reach out to friends and family to discuss the loss and pain. When someone so healthy, strong and full of life dies so young, no explanation is ever sufficient to ease the pain or to make any sense of it.

If you would like to do something in honor of Michael today, we ask that you please make a donation to support the Red Cross and the current efforts to bring relief to the people and children of Haiti. To donate to the Red Cross in tribute of Mike click here. Choose a program, for example “Where the need is greatest” to support the Haiti Relief Fund. If you would like to send a Tribute eCard please use the following e-mail address: mikesfamily13@gmail.com. A tribute card does not show us the amount you donated only your name and a customized message. Even a donation of 10 dollars makes a huge impact! We know this would have been an organization and cause Mike would have been very compassionate about and proud to have his friends and family support in his memory.

Happy Birthday Mike.



Lots of Love,

Mom, Dad, Karissa & Kailey

The Holidays...A time for peace, love & laughter

After the loss of a loved one, the Holiday Season brings special memories and tender moments of sadness.

We are also reminded of special friends and family like you. Through your love and the love we have for one another, we know that in time the Holidays will once again be filled with hope, peace and joy.

May you keep Michael’s spirit shining bright in your heart. Remember those special moments with him that bring a smile to your face and happiness to your heart.

May you be blessed with peace, love and laughter this Holiday Season and throughout the coming year.

Lots of Love,
Bill, Barb, Karissa and Kailey